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Posts tagged Etiquette from the Learn Dutch For Expats team.

A young expat woman talking by an Amsterdam canal, apologising naturally in Dutch.
Phrases & daily life

Mijn Excuus: How to Actually Apologise in Dutch

Sorry, het spijt me, mijn excuses: Dutch has registers for apologising, and over-doing it backfires. Here is how to say sorry in Dutch the way locals actually do.

Lawrence Arya··4 min
A calm desk with a pen and a card, the setting for writing a Dutch condolence card.
Students, family & social

Navigating Grief in Dutch: Writing a Condolence Card

When a Dutch friend or colleague loses someone, a handwritten condolence card matters. Here is how to condole properly, what to write, and the phrases that comfort.

Lawrence Arya··4 min
A young expat woman on her phone at a cafe table, settling a bill with a Tikkie.
Phrases & daily life

Tipping vs. Tikkie: Splitting the Bill the Dutch Way

Do you tip in the Netherlands? How much? And what's a Tikkie? Here is the Dutch etiquette of tipping, paying, and splitting the bill without the awkwardness.

Lawrence Arya··4 min
A young expat woman with her phone by an Amsterdam window, choosing a polite Dutch opener before English.
Phrases & daily life

When Is It Rude to Just Speak English First in the NL?

The Dutch speak great English, so when is leading with it fine, and when does it land as rude? Here is the etiquette of starting in English, and the better opener.

Lawrence Arya··5 min
A young expat woman with coffee by a window over an Amsterdam canal, before dinner with her Dutch in-laws.
Students, family & social

Schoonfamilie Dinner? Impress Your Dutch In-Laws

Meeting the Dutch in-laws for dinner? The Dutch prize sincerity over fluency. Here is the etiquette, the coffee ritual, and the warm phrases that win them over.

Lawrence Arya··4 min